It has to do a lot with not only marital problems or tension, but differing levels of marital tension between the partners.
You can, and should, tailor a breakup to your specific partner and relationship. But if you want to make sure that you're breaking up with kindness and mindfulness, this is where you should start.
The important thing to remember is that sometimes, even without one huge reason, it's totally OK to break up.
Whether you've just been in a relationship too long to imagine yourself doing anything else or you don't think you deserve any better— or even you just sort of give up— when you're in an unhappy relationship, you just let …
It can be hard to admit that a relationship isn't working, but it's so important to be realistic with yourself when someone isn't "The One".
Just because you're in your late 20s— and because you haven't dated before— doesn't mean you have to settle.