Because everyone, no matter how cool they are or sexy they are or experienced they are, has had some really effing bad sex from time to time.
So if you can’t control the urge for one last dalliance with someone who you used to be with, make sure that you’re taking care of yourself.
But we also need to be aware that, while there’s more and more talk about women orgasming, for some people it’s just not the be all end all of sex.
Sex is also messy and ridiculous. It’s messy and ridiculous when you first start having it and, to be honest, that never really goes away.
Doing it with the right people and making sure that you talk it through first can be the difference between a mind-blowing sex marathon and a lot of uncomfortable silences.
Whether we’re talking about asking for someone’s details, asking them out, or jumping their bones (yes, I am a teenage boy from the 1990s), there’s no reason for women not to be the ones who go for it.
But if you’re shopping for a dildo, there are just so many options out there that— with advice or not— it’s totally natural to feel really overwhelmed.
Soon you’re stuck in a cycle where you’re always faking your orgasms— and it feels like you’ve gone too far to say anything.
So if you have an STI and need to tell your partner, take a deep breath and remind yourself that you are not alone — not even close.
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