The good news is that there are so many different ways to tweak and adjust the position in order to get what you need.
But if you and your partner naturally have very different ways of handling money, it can be a challenge.
While a lot of people I know love the intensity and the deep penetration, others feel like it's impersonal or a just a bit too much.
When your hand is cramping from all the swiping and your brain feels like mush from decoding every breadcrumb dropped, it's time to admit that you need a break.
If you have a dyed-in-the-wool type-A personality mixed with a laid-back procrastinator, there’s bound to be tension.
But you might be surprised— really surprised— to find that porn actually may be incredibly useful in a relationship — and even in dating.
But on the days you can try it, I highly recommend you do — your sex life will thank you.
Reminding yourself of the good things about your relationship and why you want it to go well can be incredibly grounding, but the hardest part is realizing you're doing it in the first place.
The big problem is that once you've settled, it's really difficult to admit that you've done it.
So, with the little things, it might be easy to see when and how you can be more connected— or at least more responsive.