Maybe it's about not orgasming, maybe you have body hangups, maybe you're worried about the condom breaking — the important thing is to remember that you're not alone.
Many of us, as we move into adulthood, look for one definite moment or milestone or marker that we have finally reached ~adult status~.
But one of the hardest ways a relationship or dating situation can end is not with a huge blowout or a lot of tears, it's when your partner doesn't really have an explanation, when they just sort of... lose interest in …
It's easy to start wondering if the amount of sex you're having is the same as everyone else. Over the course of a relationship, the amount that feels right to you might change — and then you might wonder all the more.
Because there are so many great aspects of single life and you deserve them all.
But there's no real relationship without love, and not feeling loved in your relationship really hurts.
So although cutting yourself off emotionally is one of the oldest self-protection tricks in the book, it actually hurts you in the long run.
Some people thrive off of the drama of a disagreement, while for many of us, fighting is the worst possible outcome.
Being comfortable with each other is one thing, but being complacent is a whole other ballgame.
It’s easy to feel like it’s a club that you don’t know anything about. But if you’re interested, it’s actually easier to get into than you might think.