My friends and I were talking about when we lost our virginities recently, and I said, without thinking, "15". It's when I first had sex, after all. But I wasn't expecting the follow up question — was it with a …
There's nothing to hold you back — if it's a true one-night stand, you're probably literally never going to see this person again. So it's time to get wild and animalistic and a little raunchy.
I assume that lots of people have them, but I was surprised to see how many of them were related to our living setups. But now I know better.
It's not easy to spot when or how it happens, but at some point you can go from being the victim to learning some pretty bad habits yourself.
You start reading the news or checking your personal email, and the next thing you know you're down a distraction hole looking at the Instagram of your kindergarten boyfriend.
We're tired or stressed or just not feeling imaginative, and we end up having sex the same way we always do. But sometimes our sex life needs something more.
It takes a lot of effort to put out the squeaky clean image of yourself that you think shows you in the best light— you won't be able to keep it up.
It's partly because we still act like it's the 1950s when everyone gets married and stayed married — so there was less reason to study single people. But that's not the case anymore.
It's especially true if you've been in a relationship for a long time and the sex has become predictable, but everyone who's had a meh one-night stand knows that you can kind of zoom through the motions in those as …
Life sets back in, our old fantasies come back, and you may find yourself thinking about someone else — even during sex.