From kinky to vanilla, gay and straight, group sex and classic couple, there's a little bit of everything.
Our childhood affects our relationships in a really profound way, especially when it comes to attachment and security.
You want to be mindful of their feelings, you want to be clear, you don't want to cause a scene — and no way that you think of can feel quite right.
You don't need to think that talking about your sex life with your partner is a sign that you have a bad sex life.
It might be easy to say, retrospectively, that you always knew something would be a fling or you always knew you would end up with a partner for the long haul, but that might not be the case.
Ideally, you had a long chat with your partner about expectations before you ever moved in with them, so you knew what would happen if you broke up, but that's not always the case.
You might make a lot of sarcastic comments, be snarky, give the silent treatment, but the core issue is the same: You have a problem that you're not confronting directly and you’re letting it bubble up in other, unhealthy ways.
You know that sleeping with a teacher is a common fantasy and, well, a classic porn storyline. But how much does it happen in reality?
But you should talk about it with your partner, you might even discover something new.
Intimacy and desire is a hard thing to get back, so your best bet is to try not to lose it in the first place. But how on earth do you that?