But as far as oysters leading to sex is concerned, there may be science to back this idea up.
It comes down to the individual people involved and the dynamic between the two of them, so you shouldn't make any assumptions about what having a great sex life means.
I grew up in rural New Hampshire and having car sex was an integral part of the high school experience.
Because everyone, no matter how cool they are or sexy they are or experienced they are, has had some really effing bad sex from time to time.
So if you can’t control the urge for one last dalliance with someone who you used to be with, make sure that you’re taking care of yourself.
But we also need to be aware that, while there’s more and more talk about women orgasming, for some people it’s just not the be all end all of sex.
Sex is also messy and ridiculous. It’s messy and ridiculous when you first start having it and, to be honest, that never really goes away.
Doing it with the right people and making sure that you talk it through first can be the difference between a mind-blowing sex marathon and a lot of uncomfortable silences.
Whether we’re talking about asking for someone’s details, asking them out, or jumping their bones (yes, I am a teenage boy from the 1990s), there’s no reason for women not to be the ones who go for it.
But if you’re shopping for a dildo, there are just so many options out there that— with advice or not— it’s totally natural to feel really overwhelmed.