A lot of people might still think there's still a taboo around fantasies, but the truth is they're completely healthy, whether you're single or in a relationship.
Because as much as we act as though having someone finish too quickly is an issue, it can be just as uncomfortable when a partner takes too long to orgasm.
If you're going to be with someone for the long haul, your three go-to positions just aren't going to be enough.
My friends and I were talking about when we lost our virginities recently, and I said, without thinking, "15". It's when I first had sex, after all. But I wasn't expecting the follow up question — was it with a …
There's nothing to hold you back — if it's a true one-night stand, you're probably literally never going to see this person again. So it's time to get wild and animalistic and a little raunchy.
We're tired or stressed or just not feeling imaginative, and we end up having sex the same way we always do. But sometimes our sex life needs something more.
It's especially true if you've been in a relationship for a long time and the sex has become predictable, but everyone who's had a meh one-night stand knows that you can kind of zoom through the motions in those as …
Life sets back in, our old fantasies come back, and you may find yourself thinking about someone else — even during sex.
Sometimes it's because we're self-conscious about our body, sometimes we're stressed about an assignment from work, and other times, we just can't help but think pretty much everything but sex.
It can be your attitudes, your sex styles, or sometimes it can be this mysterious X factor that means despite everything being perfect on paper your sex life is nothing but awkward rubbing and the sound of bedsprings.