But despite the fact that so many people, men and women, watch porn — and the fact that it depicts an activity that you do together — a lot of people feel awkward about watching it with a partner.
There are a lot of little tricks to make sure that a one-night stand is everything it's supposed to be — a fun, weird, random break from the rest of your life.
I mean, I normally do nothing. I just start having sex. Unless I'm actively smelly, it's probably just going to happen.
But, there are certain ways of fighting that are constructive — and other ways that can tear your relationship apart.
Even if you were like me and had decent sex ed, it's not like they go into the details about how sex works. You're not getting an instruction manual, you're getting an aerial view.
But we really shouldn't worry because how often you have sex depends on you and your relationship.
Whether you like to be in control or take more of a backseat, these positions have you covered. You can mix them up however you please.
When it comes to how much sex you "should" be having, it really comes down to what you want and need as a couple — especially when it comes to a long-term relationship.
Part of the problem comes from mismatched sex drives, when one of you wants more than the other.
I've always thought that sexual compatibility was just as important as skills in the bedroom.