The good news is that there are so many different ways to tweak and adjust the position in order to get what you need.
While a lot of people I know love the intensity and the deep penetration, others feel like it's impersonal or a just a bit too much.
If you've got the energy, you'll be setting yourself up for some lovely, intimate time before you drift off to sleep.
On the contrary, I find that some unexpected sex — especially in the morning or afternoon — can make me feel zippy and downright smug for the rest of the day.
It doesn't mean you can't have exciting, passionate sex, but it may mean that you don't want to be balancing on one foot with your ankle behind their ear right off the bat.
It takes time to learn what you like, what your partner likes, and even just how things fit together sometimes.
But sex doesn't always need to drain the energy out of you so you can crash into the pillow— in fact, it can give you a little energy boost.
One of the best ways of getting around a sex rut is realizing that you don't need to be feeling like a Greek goddess every time you want to get down.
Some people have different styles or preferences — and what one person loves might just not work for another person.
Even if you were like me and had decent sex ed, it's not like they go into the details about how sex works. You're not getting an instruction manual, you're getting an aerial view.