But you might be surprised— really surprised— to find that porn actually may be incredibly useful in a relationship — and even in dating.
Reminding yourself of the good things about your relationship and why you want it to go well can be incredibly grounding, but the hardest part is realizing you're doing it in the first place.
The big problem is that once you've settled, it's really difficult to admit that you've done it.
So, with the little things, it might be easy to see when and how you can be more connected— or at least more responsive.
To be honest, eye contact is useful for a whole lot of reasons when it comes to sex and dating.
But what if you are that person — the person who likes the no-strings attached sex? I've definitely been that person.
You need to be really careful to get any unanswered questions out of the way and learn all you need to know before you get there — because it will be a lot harder to deal with unexpected surprises once you've committed …
If you’re someone who tends to put things off — or you’re married to someone who does — it can easily create friction in your relationship.
Why? Well, it's opening yourself up to the possibility of getting hurt, with someone you haven't built any trust with yet.
Not only that, it's a great way to show you're making an effort — to really block out some quality bonding time.