Originally posted on Bustle When it comes to dealbreakers in relationships, there's one that comes up a lot: children. A lot of people think that having children is a natural step that every couples takes. But that's simply not true for …
When it feels like your relationship isn't working, it can be incredibly stressful.
Having a bad fight with your partner can make you feel like everything is turned upside down. Especially if it's your first big one, the one that breaks you out of the love bubble.
How do you know when you should be taking that look and seeing if the relationship is really working out?
Every couple is different, so what is a dealbreaker for one couple might not break another. Instead, you need to focus on being honest with yourself.
It has to do a lot with not only marital problems or tension, but differing levels of marital tension between the partners.
When it comes to how long you should wait, you have to remember that it's more about the feeling than the timing.
You can, and should, tailor a breakup to your specific partner and relationship. But if you want to make sure that you're breaking up with kindness and mindfulness, this is where you should start.
The important thing to remember is that sometimes, even without one huge reason, it's totally OK to break up.
Whether you've just been in a relationship too long to imagine yourself doing anything else or you don't think you deserve any better— or even you just sort of give up— when you're in an unhappy relationship, you just let …